Channelled Message – Dec 13, 2023
Q – GOD, I can’t do this anymore, I can’t do relationships. Why do I have to go through this? What am I to learn, what do I need to change in me to have different experiences?
A – Love yourself, really love yourself, like you love others, really give yourself the support, the love, the benefit of the doubt, the forgiveness, the trust, and acceptance.
Q – How can I write about relationships and yet have no clue, no idea and just can’t do them. Makes no sense – aren’t I supposed to be an example and have the perfect relationship as I apparently have all this knowledge.
A- To have knowledge and applying that knowledge are two different things and in relationships you have two different parties (people) involved, both with their ideas, hopes, desires and conditioning, trauma, and unhealed wounds.
There is a desired outcome, of what a relationship looks and feels like and how it progresses. If each have different views on this, this makes things difficult. It all comes back to communication, of holding that loving space for he other, for the relationship to grow. But not only that, holding that loving space for self and having self-love and acceptance for where you are as well. Having patience for self as well as for your partner.
It’s letting go of the fears of being hurt, of betrayal, of things not working out. Its dropping the baggage and being 100% real and authentic and working together as a team for the common goal and highest good.
Relationships are a sacred space where two people work together, not against each other but together as a team. To keep that relationship sacred, solid, and unbreakable, the goal is not what each other can get individually but what the both of you can achieve and gain together. It’s a team effort which requires teamwork. Not two individuals working separately and each out for their own.
The more you let go, the more is gained. More love, peace, understanding, compassion, acceptance, joy, happiness, freedom, and abundance.
But finding two people willing to do this is rare, especially these days of easy access to temptation. Of all the media surrounding red flags and being told to leave because of this or of that, of faults in others of not being treated right or whatever reason is put into your thought process from outside sources, media, other people’s opinions.
It’s the relationship that is sacred, it’s what the two of you are in charge of, holding it together. To work together with the common goal and not letting it become weak or break. Its up to both to work together, each one doing their part to nurture it and let it grow.
Channelled through Robyn Dec 13, 2023