Insight – Dec 18, 2023

This morning, I watched a video on YouTube about twin flames. I am not sure if I believe in twin flames or not. I originally heard of the term many years ago liked the idea of the same soul in two different bodied or the soul being divided into two and put into two different bodies. Then people spend their lives searching for their other half and feeling the emptiness, not feeling complete and whole without the other.

I am not sure I agree with this as we are whole and complete already. Not needing another to complete us, we have it all inside of us.

The video I watched this morning talked about letting go of the notion of having to all this healing work to be able to come together with your twin flame. He said that was ok but not required as it is psychological not spiritual and since twin flames are souls the same soul in another body – mind work is not required, that is ego, the mind is ego.

Soul work is letting go of the mind, letting go of duality, it’s becoming one with your twin flame (according to Kurt from New World Allstar). Knowing that they are You. You (being consciousness) and letting go of control, letting go of fear of stuffing it up, of trying too hard etc. It’s the knowing of them being You and its already done, no more trying.

I tend to agree with this part but not sure if there is one soul and if there are twin flames.

It has been said that twin flames are your mirror, reflecting to you, parts of you that need healing.

What I believe is everyone is everyone is a mirror to you, everyone reflects to you, parts of you, whether pleasant or not so pleasant experiences. It is for us to love and accept all of it, to own all of it, to come to peace with it all.

If we go into what Kurt was saying above, we can look at ourselves, living in a different body, living different experiences. Its up to us to recognise this. The notion of loving ourselves, loving self. To me was considered individual. To love this body I wear, love these thoughts, emotions. To love an accept all of me, even the parts I may not really like. We are to come to a place of loving these as well.

We are to love and accept everyone for who they are. They are where they’re at and its not up to us to judge, just accept them. They are doing the best they can with the knowledge and wisdom they have, with their own thoughts and beliefs.

Now bring this all together the idea of letting go of duality and becoming one with all. That we are all ONE – then this brings another level of understanding to loving self. As everyone is YOU and if we are in fact loving ourselves, its loving and appreciating everyone and everything.

Some say that with twin flames they feel each other, they feel each other’s emotions and have telepathy, a bit like biological twins. But I experience that with many people. They say your twin flame mirrors you the things you need to heal in yourself, but everyone does this, not just a twin flame.